Are They Seen and Not Heard?
Did you know that the old English proverb, “Children should be seen and not heard,” was actually an expression aimed at women? Scholars believe the saying dates back to the 15 th century. It was later adapted to mean young maiden - and eventually to all those who were young. Perhaps we’ve all experienced situations where someone, old or young, was not ‘allowed’ to speak. They were looked down upon as inferior, uneducated or simply not worth hearing from. The devaluing of human beings for any reason is a challenge in our world at large and, sadly, even in the Christian church of America. In corporate worship settings, there remains a controversy in some churches as to whether or not children should be ‘seen or heard.’ I’ve heard of churches that didn’t allow children in the sanctuary, but only in the children’s wing. I’ve also heard of churches where families with children were only allowed to sit in the back rows of the church – marked off specifically for families. The thought ...